May 2012
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Hey, so PSA, anyone with epilepsy issues or...
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minionier:
Because oh god.
Signal boost. Holy fuck, she’s not kidding.
So between this post and the post I made the other day, do people think a Tumblr dedicated to pages that people with epilepsy/sensory issues may want to avoid would be helpful? It wouldn’t be a mean-spirited blog, just some place to say, “Hey, this page might...
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Hey, so PSA, anyone with epilepsy issues or...
goldenheartedrose:
minionier:
Because oh god.
Signal boost. Holy fuck, she’s not kidding.
So between this post and the post I made the other day, do people think a Tumblr dedicated to pages that people with epilepsy/sensory issues may want to avoid would be helpful? It wouldn’t be a mean-spirited blog, just some place to say, “Hey, this page might be triggering to certain...
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Conversations with slothspouse, Cops edition.
queernonymoose:
Bria: OMG DAN BUT MY FRIEND’S AUNT’S COUSINS’S MOM IS A COP AND SHE IS NIIIIIIIICE
Dan: BRIAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA THAT SLOTH IS A COP BUT WHAT ABOUT THAT
Bria: I WAS ONCE STOPPED BY THIS BABY LLAMA COP AND HE WAS NICE
Dan: THIS KITTEN COP BIT ME BUT IT WAS REALLY MY FAULT BECAUSE I STARTLED THEM.
Bria: YEAH I WAS TOTALLY MAULED BY A BABY LION COP ONCE BUT I WAS WEARING A STEAK FOR...
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Top Five Things I Will Teach Kids/My Kids
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ludio:
i didn’t say that, i just said there are cops out there who are nice people. i understand there are A LOT of terrible ones. A LOT. loads. tons. just a whole fucking lot. but to say all of them are scum is just not fair and it really gets to me. my aunt is a lovely person and a cop. she does good work. i’m not trying to pretend all cops do, so please don’t pretend i said...
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How do you explain the racist prison-industrial...
This evening, I was scrolling through my blog with my kiddo on my lap. This is nothing new. After we eat dinner, we usually go into the living room to watch a little TV before bed. I bring my computer so I can catch up with my dash and, most of the time, Ryatt ends up on my lap for some one-on-one cuddle time after a long day of sharing his mama with the kids I watch. This was the case...
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“If a fat person dies and one more person says to me, “Fat Person died because...”
– Flip Floppin’ Joy. Absolutely face-slappingly, spot on, incredible. (via pluseyes)
I’ve got one to add:
That Fat Person died because they decided killing themselves was the only way to stop the bullying they received from their peers at school since the teachers didn’t feel the need to say...
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dontbescaredofthefall:
fracturedrefuge replied to your post: the apocalypse is upon us…
*pets your smoothness* Imeanwut…?
My legs are wicked smooth right now. I wish you could pet them. I like it, but I miss my hair.
I hadnt shaved my pits in a year. What will I do without my pit hair?!
*petpets*
Ryatt has taken to softly petting my arm pit hair when we lay down to nap. I think he...
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[TW: Extreme, gross ableism, brief mention of...
goldenheartedrose:
holymotherofrowling:
myxolydian:
All I want is to solve problems. Right now there’s a lot of sad people with mental health disabilities and I get it; you think it’s not fair that you aren’t desirable. You think it’s unfair that people don’t want you to breed or don’t see you as useful. But that’s just because you see yourself as desirable, normal and useful. That’s your...
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Conversations with my slothspouse
(On some one being a generally shitty human being)
queernonymoose: I think she should go swallow a duck
Bria Grace: …a duck?
queernonymoose: I couldn’t think of anything and thought a duck would have a temper
(P.S. “Conversations with my slothspouse” is now going to be A Thing on this blog. Just so you’re warned.)
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How is body-positivity compatible with...
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gaynotqueer:
I see a lot of Tumblr tranz identifying themselves as “body-positive”. We’ve all seen the profiles.” “Hi, I’m Aiden Sparkles. I’m a body-positive, pansexual queer, sex-positive feminist trans* man performance artist from the Bay Area. I like kittens, cupcakes, and DIY zines. My preferred pronouns are ze, zir, V, and em. I WILL NOT stand for any oppressive...
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dizzzypie asked: OMG BUNNIES AND YES ADD US TOGETHER
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Cyndead
cyndead:
fracturedrefuge:
I got your ask about “good hearing privilege” and I tried to answer but I think Tumblr might have eaten the ask, so here I am.
I don’t quite know what you mean by “good hearing privilege” - do you mean using your hearing privilege for good instead of using it to oppress people? Or do you mean the privilege of having good hearing as opposed to partial hearing?
I...
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brynncognito asked: Running low on spoons myself as of late, but sending love and empathy your way nonetheless. <3
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mcgoats asked: I love you to tiny bits and itty bitty pieces. Someday soon we will share pizza together joyously. And snuggle.
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Anonymous asked: I am so, so sorry for everything that has happened and is happening to you. I hope you feel better soon. You are strong enough and you will pull through. <3
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dizzzypie asked: Bria, I love you so fucking much. You are one of my favorite people on tumblr even though I have known you a short while, but seriously you are wonderful intuitive and incredibly sweet. I wish I could come give you affection of the physical variety and hug and cuddle and peck at you and just take care of you <3 You deserve so much greatness and I give you any spoons I can give. Know that I am...
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sanaa-tamir replied to your post: I’m more that just a little unwell…
*hugs* I know that feeling.
*hugs back* I’m sorry. No one should have to feel like this.
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zladkohasaboaraffe replied to your post: I’m more that just a little unwell…
Love love, a...
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I'm more that just a little unwell...
I am so very, very not okay right now.
Flashbacks, body memories. I hurt. Everywhere hurts. Everything remembers. All at once.
Every destructive thing I have ever done to myself is hitting me at once, screaming, pulling me down to their level.
Please leave some love or something. This is the worst it has been in a while and I don’t think I am strong enough.
If you could muster love,...
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Stop the sales of gun targets that resemble... →
obscureone:
bendingsignpost:
wibblywobblynina:
Link is a Change.org petition. You do not need to display your signature publicly, so please, there are no reasons for you not to sign!
Sign now!
Who the hell thought this was okay?
so fucked up
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Brooklyn trans woman dies in suspicious apartment... →
Lorena Escalera (Photo – MarcoOrvando.com)
THE GUERRILLA ANGEL REPORT — A passerby saw the flames and banged on doors and everyone in the building got out except Lorena Escalera who was found her bed by firefighters using thermal imaging. She was declared dead at the scene by paramedics.
Escalera, who worked as an escort, had two men in her apartment earlier. They have not been found as of...
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[trigger warning for anti-trans violence and... →
genderbitch:
tranqualizer:
projectqueer:
BY Diane Anderson-Minshall
TW: murder of trans* woman, possible hate crime
Marcel Camero Tye, a 25-year-old transgender woman in Arkansas, was murdered over a year ago, but despite criticism from local advoctes, investigators say they haven’t stopped looking for her killer even though the case is cold.
According to a new report on KTHV, Tye was...
Stop telling your allies to fuck off.
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angrybanette:
queerslutpride:
I wish I could teach you a lesson. Pry your damn eyes open with a crowbar. You do not see what you are doing. This is why people don’t bother fixing things. Because they get this shit for it. This is why people have anxiety about failure, and don’t even bother trying, for fear of shit like this. This is why I don’t bother much with...
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Abortion help?
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goldenheartedrose:
waitingtocollide:
It’s looking more and more like my little sister might be pregnant. I did some research today, and the dates around when she most likely would have ovulated and when she had (unprotected) sex are reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeally close. As in, it is perfectly possible that she’s pregnant.
I’m wondering if anyone who has had an...
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fuzzybagels asked: Just a reminder that I love you and I love Ryatt even though I have yet to meet him <3
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Anonymous asked: How do I explain that reverse racism doesn't exist?
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Dreams of my child
So not too long ago, Ryatt was watching Elmo’s World and saw a segment where a kid goes to a museum to see dinosaur fossils. He was absolutely enthralled, so I told him that if he wanted to, we could go to the Philadelphia Academy of Natural Sciences to see the “rawr” (his word for dinosaurs). Let’s just say that now, I get asked at least once a day, “Rawr? Cake?...